Listen, Slowly

Discuss the reasons why Mai does not identify with her Vietnamese heritage. Is it only because she has been raised in American culture, or is it more because her parents have not been open with her about their history? How could they have been more intentional about exposing Mai to her roots?

Consider the author’s decision to write from Mai’s first-person point of view. Does this choice allow the reader the opportunity to experience Mai’s internal monologue authentically, or does it make Mai a dislikable character with whom the reader struggles to find empathy?

Discuss how Mai views her physical body. She discusses how her thin frame contrasts with the more curvaceous bodies revered by Californians. How does her view of her body change when she gets to Vietnam? Analyze how the Vietnamese obsession with skincare mirrors the American obsession with body size and shape. How does Mai ultimately become less self-conscious while in Vietnam?